I'm a sucker for love. And romance. I'm affectionate and like feeling special. Don't we all?
Isn't it easy to forget how much we love someone? Buried up to our eyeballs in work, house, bills and kids...sometimes we lose track of our partner. What if someone told you that you could start fresh with your partner? Would you do it?
Remember back when you first fell in love? A time when a toilet seat left up, socks left on the floor, burping and farting didn't seem so bad. Now that the years have passed, these little things are like hits to the relationship. Do you ever fill like a scoreboard keeper? Each time one of his flaws are spotlighted you make another tally mark on a score sheet.
Here's a question. When was the last time you did something for your partner free of expectation? Never? That's probably what most people would say. After all, did you give that massage to your partner last night without one hope that you'd get one too--or maybe something better? Eventually, when your partner doesn't meet your expectations, you begin to keep "score." Then, you start to do less and less work to keep the spark alive.
Have you ever heard someone say, "My partner just isn't the way he used to be." Well, is anyone ever like they "used to be?" Isn't growing a part of life? Is it possible that you've gotten so used to your partner doing sweet and kind things that you've stopped saying "thank you" and he feels less appreciated? Or, perhaps he doesn't tell you how beautiful you are like he used to?
Here's something for you to think about. If suddenly your partner disappeared. No goodbye. No explanation. No closure. How would you feel? Would you be wishing that you would have done things differently? We all must realize that tomorrow is never a guarantee. Never take for granted those we love.
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Dreaming Ivy by Rhonda Lee Carver
Can a past love become their future?
The Thorntons’ mansion is full of timeless secrets waiting to be unraveled. When small-town journalist Ivy and ghost hunter Max are stuck in the forgotten, dilapidated house, they find more than just a haunting. Ivy finds herself dreaming of the former owners, Marcus Thornton and his lovely wife, Elizabeth. Their profound love was once the talk of the town, and the cause their mysterious, untimely deaths never found. When Ivy’s dreams begin to become reality, the mystery starts to unravel and sheds truth on more than just the past.
WARNING: Graphic language, naughty ghosts, a non-committal male, and a love that endures beyond time and death.
Dreaming Ivy by Rhonda Lee Carver
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